Codes & Signs...

Before we go further let me explain you the codes & signs that we use in this blog and in the real world. Those signs you can find frequently on the web pages with dating services.    

In our world or better said in the world of Gay Fetish fantasies, so also the Fist community uses a lot of codes and signs.

First let's talk about what we like as a person, active or passive and also versatile.
Top or bottom?
In general we know what we like in our sexual behavior or we know to what we are attracted. If not let me help You:

Active/Top: a person who we call active or top is a person who likes to do things in a dominant way, to control.

THIS DOES NOT MEAN THAT THIS PERSON DOESN’T LIKE TO BE SUCKED RIMMED OR THAT HE DOES NOT LIKE PAIN OR ROUGH SEX.                      

An active guy can also be submissive but does not like penetrations in any kind of form.     

An active person wants to give in general he likes to fuck, fist etc.

or be the master of the game, the S in SM = Sado Masochism.

Passive/Bottom: a person who we call passive or bottom is a person who likes to get things done to him, to receive.
THIS DOES NOT MEAN THAT THIS PERSON DOESN’T LIKE TO DO THINGS TO LIKE SUCKING RIMMING OR TO GIVE PLEASURE THE OTHER PERSON.                 
A passive guy can be active too but likes above all penetrations.  A passive person wants to receive in general he likes to get fucked fisted etc.  So being more the M in SM.

Versatile: is a person that likes both sides active/passive or some people say also that they do not know what they really want. (My personal experience is that 8 out of 10 versatile guys I met are passive.) But sometimes you walk up to one who really is….                          
Versatile guys you see on profiles on gay dating services as 50/50.
You also see profiles with 60 or 70% etc. in either direction, in general it means we like one side more than the other but we can switch.

FISTING:

FF = Fist Fucking (Hand Fucking)

double Fist = 2 Fist (Hands)

Fist boxing or Boxing = Punching with the hands

Deep or Elbow deep fisting

Wide fisting

FFun = Fist Fun

Feet Fucking or Feet fisting = Same as Fist but with the feet.

Hanky code signs…

The hanky code sign is an old system that was already used in the 18 century by Christian people in the far west, in that time the hanky’s were used in 3 colors white/yellow/orange to say: I want something – I am free or I am married but still want sex.
It was picked back up by the gay community in the 60’s / 70’s but with more colors and other meanings. I will explain the most common ones. Here we come back again to the active/top wearing the hanky on the left side, in general in the back pocket of his pants (Why left? Like in politics the left is in general more active), the passive/bottom is wearing the hanky on the right side. Versatile guys wear this in general around their neck.
For fisting it is the color RED.

                                                                                right:                          left:

• RED               =    Fist                              Fist fucker                 Loves to get fisted
• Dark RED     =    double Fist                 2 Hand fister             2 Hand fistee
• Dark Bleu      =    Fucking                      Loves to Fuck            Loves to get fucked
• Light Bleu      =    Sucking                      Wants head               Expert cocksucker
• Yellow            =    Watersport/Piss         Pisser                         Piss freak
• Grey               =    Bondage                     Bondage top              Bondage bottom
• Orange           =   Anything                    Anything/anytime      Nothing  now
• Brown            =    Scat                             Scat top                      Scat bottom
• Army Green  =    Uniforms or drill       Militairy top              Militairy bottom

Those are the most famous ones... there are a lot more and i will put the whole list here one day.