Thursday, March 7, 2013

Fisting: A General Introduction - How do I start?

So we did eat well the last days, we learned how to clean out, you cut our finger nails, we choose our lubrications and the boy we want to play with. 
WHAT NOW?
Do we use special things/items or a special place to play?

This in general we leave up to the bottoms, we want him to be totaly relaxed and calm. But we tops can also invite people at our house. Remember, things can get dirty; lubes will be falling down etc. etc., so protect the things or the space where you want to play. You can use (beach) towels or plastic/latex or rubber sheets.

For beginners the bed can be comfortable, the coach or just on the ground. For those under you who can effort it a sling. This is seen by a lot of bottoms as the best position to fist in.

What is a sling? A sling is a hammock, made out of leather or strong thick rubber (see photo, my slings at home), you can buy them on line or at specialist shops. Prices are very different from 200€ up to 500€. There are different models 4 points or 5 points (with head support) and different designs. You hang them on rings to your wall or ceiling or you buy a portable one.



4 points
5 points
Portable sling 4 points

Slings are nice and comfortable to lie in, lying on your back and the legs are up. For most of the bottoms this is a good way to handle the hands coming in. Beside that you have a perfect eye to eye contact between the top and bottom. Group play makes it also easier with a sling.
In time you will learn which position you like the most, sling, doggy position, straight up or in sitting position, there are a lot of ways. 
Beside a sling there are more products that you can use, like a gynecology bed, a tire swing, in the years I saw some nice and hot self-made items.


 (2nd hand around 100€ on Ebay)
Great indoors & outdoors
(Self-made price 25€)

What do we need more? 
  • Paper towels to clean. Message to all Tops: out of respect we clean the ass of the bottom after every session.
  • Gloves: latex, nitrile rubber, vinyl or neoprene. Also here you have to find out in time what you like. Even when you play Bareback (meaning without) you should always have gloves with you or at your house. The other person can have little injuries on his hand or you inside so it is safer.
  • Condoms
  • Cleaning alcohol, to clean your hands and arms before playing, between breaks or after.

The bigger the better








Also in black


Because we do not only fist.




So now you're ready to start...

coming up:
Fisting - The Act

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